As part of the Sacramental peparation program, the children gain a deeper respect and apprecition of the Eucharist during this retreat. For information, contact the Director of Faith Formation at 972-542-4667 ext. 110.
Dear Parents
Dress code for 1st Communion is:
Girls- a white or beige dress or skirt and blouse, it must be modest. Skirts or dress at least to the knees and no low-cut tops, they can have a veil if they want. Shoulders must be covered, if the dress has spaghetti straps or strapless then she has to have a white or beige sweater or jacket over that. Dress shoes no sneakers
Boys, dark slacks and white shirt, tie and/or jacket is optional. He can wear a white suit if he wishes to. Dress shoes, no sneakers.
Please do not give your child anything to hold onto during the Mass. Remember, do not eat for 1 hour before Mass.
We will follow the regulations dictated by the Diocese for how many people can be present during the Mass.
El código de vestimenta para la 1ª Comunión es: Chicas- un vestido o una falda blanca o beige y una blusa, debe ser modesta. Faldas o vestidos al menos hasta las rodillas y sin tops de corte bajo, pueden tener un velo si lo desean. Los hombros deben estar cubiertos, si el vestido tiene correas de espagueti o sin tirantes, entonces ella tiene que tener un blanca o beige suéter o chaqueta sobre eso. Zapatos de vestir, no tenis.
Chicos, pantalones oscuros y camisa blanca, corbata y / o chaqueta son opcionales. Puede usar un traje blanco si lo desea. Zapatos de vestir, no tenis.
Por favor, no le dé a su hijo nada para sostener durante la misa. Recuerde, no coma durante 1 hora antes de la misa.
Seguiremos los reglamentos dictados por la Dioscesis para ver cuantas personas pueden estar presentes durante la Misa.
Baptized youth, ages 6-18, seeking to receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation and First Holy Communion should enroll in our Faith Formation program. This program begins September each year. For information contact the Director of Faith Formation Director at 972-542-4667 ext. 110.
Non-baptized youth and adults, please refer to the information for RCIA.
We know that each of the Catholic sacraments produces its own special effect or effects. If the purpose of all sacraments were simply to give a single kind of grace, one sacrament would be enough; there would have been no need for our Lord Jesus to have instituted seven.
The sacrament of the Holy Eucharist was instituted as a food, a spiritual food.
That is why the outward sign of this sacrament—the appearances of bread and wine—is a sign of nourishment, just as in Baptism the outward sign is water, a sign of cleansing.
The action by which we as individuals receive the Holy Eucharist is an act of eating. We swallow the appearances of bread and wine under which Jesus is present. This is the action which we call Holy Communion.
As the Catechism’s section on Holy Communion and the Eucharist says:
The Lord addresses an invitation to us, urging us to receive him in the sacrament of the Eucharist: “Truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of man and drink his blood, you have no life in you.” [Jn 6:53] (_Catechism_, 1384)
As Catholics, we know that the Holy Eucharist is the source and summit of our faith: it is the Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Pope Francis has called it the “Sacrament of Love”:
“The Eucharist is at the heart of ‘Christian initiation’, together with Baptism and Confirmation, and it constitutes the source of the Church’s life itself. From this Sacrament of love, in fact, flows every authentic journey of faith, of communion, and of witness.”
For children who are preparing to receive their First Holy Communion, this is a big deal. And for all of us, no matter how many times we have received Our Lord in the Holy Eucharist, it should always be a big deal.
What makes it so special the first time is the same thing that makes it special every time!
Jesus comes to us in a unique way in the Eucharist. When He comes, we receive Him into our body and our soul. This is very beautiful, personal, and intimate. We should not take it for granted!
This is why the first time a family member makes their Holy Communion, it is and exciting event for the whole family. The boy or girl preparing for this sacrament is going to be profoundly united with Jesus in a way that they never have before!
It is such a holy, joyful occasion. Our souls become the bride of Christ. That is why girls wear white dresses and boys wear suits. Relatives are invited. Parents take pictures. We celebrate. And the very act of celebrating reveals our belief in the True Presence of Jesus in the Eucharist.
Father Roger Landry of the Diocese of Fall River in New England says, “…what makes one’s first Communion a truly blessed event is not the adjective but the substantive: not the ‘first’ but the ‘communion.’ Because of whom we receive, the second, third, next, and last Communion should always be as special.“
Unfortunately, for many of us Catholics, First Holy Communion has become simply a right of passage. The essence of the celebration is lost among the parties and gifts. “Parties and gifts are fine,” says one priest, “as long as the focus never strays from what the celebration is truly about.”
First Holy Communion is, without question, a time of great joy. The saints in heaven, who are delighted to intercede for us, are celebrating along with your family.
“You come to me,” says Saint Maximilian Kolbe to Jesus, speaking for all of us, “and unite Yourself intimately to me under the form of nourishment. . . . What miracles! Who would have ever imagined such!”
St. Mother Teresa also has words for you and your family: “Jesus has made Himself the Bread of Life to give us life. Night and day, He is there. If you really want to grow in love, come back to the Eucharist…”
Yes, the celebration of a child’s First Holy Communion IS a big deal. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!
FIRST HOLY COMMUNION
Requires two years of preparation through participation in Faith Formation in elementary school grades. Children receive 1st Reconciliation and 1st Communion in their 2nd year of preparation.